The women that came out to share their weekend with me were truly interested, curious, and best of all OPEN.Also in moving forward to produce this event I've also made new friends with some fabulous and really fantastic women who brought their own Fabulosity to share with my students.
Special Thanks and Mention to:
The Incredible Mrs. Smith of Sex Scene Ice Cream who brought the delectable delights of her Velvet Ecstasy!
The Verbally Sensual La' Erotica Poet for setting the mood with her work!
The Truely Flirtatious Relana of Good Gyrrl Studio for bring some toys and goodies for us to enjoy!
The wonderful students who keep me on my toes of The Meow University!!!
Despite the heat, the holiday and other technical difficulties of the day, 15 ladies gathered in the heat to get beginner's information about the lifestyle play of B.D.S.M. from Mistress Crimson. Most like myself were curious and clueless, but in need of more information to take our various sexual routines to a new level. Crimson did a wonderful job in addressing our group just as we were. She began with giving us terminology so we would not get lost in language outside of our day to day conversations. Next was the breaking down of stereotypes and misconceptions that one too many episodes of Law a & Order helped to create for me. This was the most helpful in "lubricating the situation" by being able to drop my barriers in considering my own preferences. Kink is not just about pain and torture, its about being comfortable with who I am as a person, confidence in my sexuality, and awareness of the boundaries of myself and my partner. It involves a lot of communication/negotiation, establishing of trust, and the creation of ultimate intimacy.
After everyone was comfortable, then we got into techniques you could try, from negotiation to sensual and rough play from a dominant point of view. I won't give away any of her techniques except to say that there may be a paddle in my near future. Overall the class was informative and inspiring to myself and hopefully others to try something new. My imagination is now spread eagle!
By the way Mistress Crimson is an awesome educator partnered with Early to Bed!!!
What's next??? June 9th Brown Bag Lunch & Learn. We will be having lunch, followed by a dungeon social, and ending our day at Early to Bed... email firstname.lastname@example.org for more information.