I'm sitting here in the middle of the night, chilled and slightly dehydrated from wine bringing in The New Year and I couldn't help but reflect on the Sex of 2011.
Let me give you the background.
I'm a mother of 2 boys that are 22 months apart, the last thing on my mind at the beginning of 2011 was sex. For the wholesome audience in my life I sell children's educational toys. When my introduction to new mothers kept causing confusion as to what toys I actually sold, my curiosity and frustration was piqued!
It would go something like this:
ME: Hi I'm a mom and I sell toys!
LADY: (Raised eyebrow and smirk) Oh really?
ME: Yes! They are very educational and great for development.
LADY: (Stepping in closer) The toys come with good instructions... Do you have the "Jack Rabbit" or similar dildo?
ME: (Stuck in the Matrix with confused look followed by blank stare) I was referring to building blocks and books for your children.
Ok! So you can see how those conversations would quickly go downhill become REALLY awkward. One day... out of curiosity, I decided to host an ADULT toy party with a local Boutique. My event was packed with women eagerly anticipating the goodies being brought for their perusal and purchase. You would think this would lead me to sell toys... There was something else missing from this puzzle, until my husband who was hiding at this event with the other man actually became interested in an item based on the information given about it.
The questions then came up for me personally... I'm happy in my marriage but, are we having the best sex we could have? The answer was NO. Besides money, sex is a BIG issue in relationships. What do you do? I have 2 kids we know how they got here, now what? Does he still find me attractive?
So I'll stop there with the endless barrage of questions that started with the request for a toy. The next thing that happened was opportunity. I found out about a fellatio class from a close friend. Curious! Because I had no clue that there was instruction for that. I then called Angel of Angel's Erotic Solutions. She explained what her hands on class format and after an hour of answering my questions I booked her for a class. With 11 women we were changed forever! We or more so I was turned on to a world of the erotic beyond what I knew from porn and school girl locker room talk. I was elevated to a new consciousness of my sexuality and what it means to please and be pleased. My curiosity did not kill me but it gave me an orgasm.
After we mastered fellatio the next curiosity was about bondage. Just imagine if fellatio was mind blowing for me... You can guess how hard it was for me to find a Dominatrix!!! I then called Mistress Elizabeth who gave us Dominatrix 101 and 269 which were workshops on how to dominate your lover in the bedroom, spanking, and bondage techniques. THAT, then led us to a field trip to a local Chicago Dungeon GD2. That was absolutely amazing. The equipment, the order, the art of BDSM. I want to know more and MORE classes are sure to come.
After pacifying my BDSM urges it was time to focus on the underlying glue for all of this... Communication. For this I was lucky to know Erotic Romance Author K.D. King. She presented an awesome workshop on Communicating Your Sexual Needs. You'd be surprised how simple techniques can get major results!
We took a fun trip with a few ladies to see a Tribal Belly Dance show... and I look forward to many more trips. This has been an awesome journey and we are starting the year off right with our 1st class with Searah Deysach of Early to Bed presenting Tickle Your Fancy: Female Sexuality, Orgasm & What Toys Can Do for You!
In this class:
We’ll dismiss myths you may have heard and talk about the nature of women’s pleasure & orgasm.
We will also discuss masturbation and its benefits and give you some great tips for feeling more comfortable in your body.
We’ll also touch on some ways to make having sex with women even better for everyone involved and show you a few toys & gadgets that can make sex more fun for anyone.
Better Sex, Strong Relationships, Happy Women!!!What are you curious about? Leave a comment!
Let me give you the background.
I'm a mother of 2 boys that are 22 months apart, the last thing on my mind at the beginning of 2011 was sex. For the wholesome audience in my life I sell children's educational toys. When my introduction to new mothers kept causing confusion as to what toys I actually sold, my curiosity and frustration was piqued!
It would go something like this:
ME: Hi I'm a mom and I sell toys!
LADY: (Raised eyebrow and smirk) Oh really?
ME: Yes! They are very educational and great for development.
LADY: (Stepping in closer) The toys come with good instructions... Do you have the "Jack Rabbit" or similar dildo?
ME: (Stuck in the Matrix with confused look followed by blank stare) I was referring to building blocks and books for your children.
Ok! So you can see how those conversations would quickly go downhill become REALLY awkward. One day... out of curiosity, I decided to host an ADULT toy party with a local Boutique. My event was packed with women eagerly anticipating the goodies being brought for their perusal and purchase. You would think this would lead me to sell toys... There was something else missing from this puzzle, until my husband who was hiding at this event with the other man actually became interested in an item based on the information given about it.
The questions then came up for me personally... I'm happy in my marriage but, are we having the best sex we could have? The answer was NO. Besides money, sex is a BIG issue in relationships. What do you do? I have 2 kids we know how they got here, now what? Does he still find me attractive?
So I'll stop there with the endless barrage of questions that started with the request for a toy. The next thing that happened was opportunity. I found out about a fellatio class from a close friend. Curious! Because I had no clue that there was instruction for that. I then called Angel of Angel's Erotic Solutions. She explained what her hands on class format and after an hour of answering my questions I booked her for a class. With 11 women we were changed forever! We or more so I was turned on to a world of the erotic beyond what I knew from porn and school girl locker room talk. I was elevated to a new consciousness of my sexuality and what it means to please and be pleased. My curiosity did not kill me but it gave me an orgasm.
After we mastered fellatio the next curiosity was about bondage. Just imagine if fellatio was mind blowing for me... You can guess how hard it was for me to find a Dominatrix!!! I then called Mistress Elizabeth who gave us Dominatrix 101 and 269 which were workshops on how to dominate your lover in the bedroom, spanking, and bondage techniques. THAT, then led us to a field trip to a local Chicago Dungeon GD2. That was absolutely amazing. The equipment, the order, the art of BDSM. I want to know more and MORE classes are sure to come.
After pacifying my BDSM urges it was time to focus on the underlying glue for all of this... Communication. For this I was lucky to know Erotic Romance Author K.D. King. She presented an awesome workshop on Communicating Your Sexual Needs. You'd be surprised how simple techniques can get major results!
We took a fun trip with a few ladies to see a Tribal Belly Dance show... and I look forward to many more trips. This has been an awesome journey and we are starting the year off right with our 1st class with Searah Deysach of Early to Bed presenting Tickle Your Fancy: Female Sexuality, Orgasm & What Toys Can Do for You!
In this class:
We’ll dismiss myths you may have heard and talk about the nature of women’s pleasure & orgasm.
We will also discuss masturbation and its benefits and give you some great tips for feeling more comfortable in your body.
We’ll also touch on some ways to make having sex with women even better for everyone involved and show you a few toys & gadgets that can make sex more fun for anyone.
Better Sex, Strong Relationships, Happy Women!!!What are you curious about? Leave a comment!
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